Lending an Ear Feeding the Poor
Helping in times of crisis: What you can do for someone who lost a job
Many of us today fear the very real possibility of a job loss. Stories of longer hours and bigger workload in these Covid times are now well-heard. Many cope giving themselves no choice, for the fear of losing what they have. To make matters worse is the fact that these are also not the times to switch jobs. Hiring is at its worst and no one knows how long it'll be before it's back up.
Those who have faced this reality of a job loss are staring at an uncertainly long period of unemployment, all while being bound within the walls of their homes. Naturally, there is not much scope to spare the family the truth. You are constantly around each other and they see it. Tapping into one's networks is more cumbersome now, what with the lack of social gatherings, formal meetings or causal coffee catch ups. You may not find yourself in a position to financially help someone but on a personal level, there are a few things you could do.
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Everyone needs a friend to vent to and seek support from. Women seek solace from such venting; they may not care much for an actual solution. But to men tire, it seems pointless to talk if no concrete solution comes out of such talking. Men usually need someone they can trust with their situation, someone who can genuinely guide and mentor and someone who can open new doors for them or show them a way. Step up to fill this role for your dear ones.
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A family's finances are not always in order and many do not wish for an outsider to take a look at what is there. Many suffer a sense of shame about the financial decisions they made or did not make and cannot tolerate another stricturing while they are already low. A friend or financial adviser needs to play that sensitive role. Of organising the money affairs, seeing what can be liquidated, how the household will be funded for the near future, and how long term goals need to remain secured. Most need help with this task.
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Families do not know how to cope. They are not sure whether talking about the new situation is the right thing or not. Children and the spouse may overreact out of fear. The man of the house may turn aloof and distant, aggravating the situation. Support is needed from another close family that can speak without judgment and help the other family know that they are not alone. These are trying times; but they won't last forever. Without the ability to ride through a tough phase, a family can find itself stressed and strained. Most need a supporting hand. Help monetarily if you can, and do it without fuss.
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When an earning member loses his job, the household's finances are severely impacted. The uncertainty is worrisome. Some families find it tough to even meet routine expenses. Some have to dip into their assets. While many layoffs may include a payment that buffers the household somewhat, the shock to the household's finances is severe. Many of us who still hold our jobs are fortunate. If firms are incapable of empathy, we can step up and reach out to friends and relatives in distress. Covid times calls for that additional dose of community service and social consciousness. We can begin small. Each one of us.
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Source: https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/wealth/plan/helping-in-times-of-crisis-what-you-can-do-for-someone-who-lost-a-job/lend-an-ear-to-hear/slideshow/83605287.cms
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